Charlotte

Tucking Pt 1 – Crotch Bulge

If you attend any wedding or any other formal occasion in Scotland you will come across many men wearing a skirt – otherwise known as a kilt. Have you ever wondered why they wear their purse or “Sporan” hanging down the front of their kilt? Sure, they don’t have pockets but really it is thereContinue reading “Tucking Pt 1 – Crotch Bulge”

Self Harm, Part II

I said in my previous post that I would discuss hurting myself in my next post, so here it is. Not long after I came out to my wife I noticed a very distinct burning sensation, literally starting in my right testicle and moving through my urethra. I remember feeling hopeful that, because I hadContinue reading “Self Harm, Part II”

Self Harm

How do I talk about Self Harm without making myself cry? How do I talk about Self Harm without making the people most important to me cry or angry? Self Harm? Me? I don’t cut myself, I don’t starve myself, I don’t gorge and purge. But I do “poison” (I will explain) myself and IContinue reading “Self Harm”

Family Life

I live in a small house in the middle of nowhere with @angharadswife (she still uses my old name), the girl sailor and the boy sailor, a cat, sheep and sometimes hens. I am a senior manager in my workplace and wear, when possible, a gender neutral outfit of monogrammed polo shirt, black trousers andContinue reading “Family Life”

Purple Friday

We have taken part today in the 10th Purple Friday today. I have to say that I looked absolutely stunning.

Am I a Hypocrite?

My Daughter wrote this article. Like all good journalism it is informative, challenging and thoughtful. I am very proud of her and, although I wish she was not conflicted in her relationship with me, I love that she has discussed it in this way and allowed me to share it with you all. It’sContinue reading “Am I a Hypocrite?”

Pink

When I grow old I’m going to wear pink! Pink hoodies, pink bras and Pink knickers, Under boob tubes, pink skirts or pink leggings, With pink socks, pink tights, and pink knickers! In years to come I’ll keep my hair long And gather it up into bunches. I’ll grow out my fringe with hair clipsContinue reading “Pink”

Introducing Charlotte

Have you ever looked at a women walking past and thought “I like what she is wearing? That looks really comfortable!” Have you felt your biological clock ticking, when talking to a pregnant woman brings out feelings of jealousy that are so strong you cannot speak about them? Do you sit around chatting with yourContinue reading “Introducing Charlotte”